13.3.12.

If you want me,

Questioning, is essential to find the answer. It is the first step, and you should never be afraid of it. Challenge with gentleness, and an open heart. Growth is a process not a level up thing after all, and relationships are about wanting to finding out more and more.

random thoughts on spirituality/life.

Have I mentioned that Ive seen Taylor Swift face to face??? Shes so pretty lah! :D

you better speak up, I wont wait.

Drop Everything Now

The most memorable snippet of advise I remember reading is from non other than AMA Artist of the Year 2011 Ms Taylor Swift.

She said that she likes to divide things into two categories. 1) Things I can change and 2) Things I can't.

Its simple, yet it works. When dealing with an issue, I am able to identify with this and divide it into these 2 categories. It doesnt mean giving up on 2), but rather concentrating my efforts into the stuff that has a higher priority. Thats revolutionary, because Sag's like me and Taylor love nothing better than to overcomplicate, overthink and want to deal with every minor detail that crops up. Remembering this helps me keep on the right track.

Interesting thoughts Ive got from this so far in my life.
1) One thing you can always change, is yourself.
2) Things that you cant change, wont stay unchangeable forever.
3) Sometimes, you need to realise that you cant change things by yourself, and you need Someone to change it for you. :)
4) All that being said, sometimes change can wait.

So, heres to never changing, yet never staying the same. Its a Sag thing. after all.

and meet me in the pouring rain

Once Upon A Time

we caught on to something. 


Hehehehe. 4 more months, Me Gusta.


Back up, baby back up.

Speak Now

Not too long ago, I purchased tickets to Taylor Swift's concert in March 2012. Read about it, here! Just so you know, I am screaming inside like how a real man should when he is going for a Taylor Swift concert. Like this --> Oorah! Or Spartaaaaaa! You can be rest assured that they are manly sounds.

And thank you Sarah Lee for getting the tickets! :DDDD

I also recently been asked questions about Taylor Swift. "Why do you like her?", is one I hear often. I shall try to answer it now, for it is a good question! But to be honest, I've never thought about it, because I never needed a reason to like her. The way I see it, if there were certain qualities I like about her, or anything/anyone for that matter, wouldn't that mean when something better comes along I would like that other one better?

For example, I say I like her because she can sing well, or play the guitar, or looks pretty. Logically, shes not the best choice because shes not the best singer, or best guitar player, or even the prettiest in my books. But yet I do choose her in the end. Why? I guess its as simple as this, that she is worth it. Worth listening to, worth following, worth sacrificing for. No doubt there are better and more qualified, talented, whatever artists out there, but I couldn't care less about comparing them to her. No matter what she did, or whether or not she is "good enough", she's my choice, and asking me why do I like her is like asking why did the chicken cross the road. To get to the other side right? And it didn't matter whether there were better roads out there, it just wanted to cross, and it did.

So thats why I like Taylor Swift, and same goes for the many things in this world that I like. Special mention to Arsenal, that no matter what happens, Im a Gunner for Life!

"I love you like I love having the last word. And that's real love." - Taylor Swift.

That quote, pretty much sums up why I like things :)